She has many friends to tell her about their happiness , but when ever she get sad she can’t share her feelings because of fear of getting misjudged. She doesn’t want to go to social gatherings because of the fear of getting hurt and embarrassed. She doesn’t want to hang out with friends because her counter point may get her remarked as arguable person and now she is not confident anymore when surrounded by people.
Why this phobia happened ?
She felt that whenever she has tried to get close with any of her friends ,they mocked her by telling about ambiguity of her talks which hurted her. When she tried to enjoy in a function people just commented on her appearance and how she behaved over excitededly. When ever she expressed her opinion either people had thrown their tantrums telling that her opinion is absurd or just tried to impose their opinions on her.
So now a question arises ? Who is responsible for her Sociophobic condition ?
Either she or society …..
Does anybody have the answer ??????
Criticism of being natural generates phobia of being social…..
This post is not any gender specific ,it’s just explained by an instance.
So if you have any such friends , don’t make them feel awkward as each of us have some nuisance inside , just try to understand such people and you may get a best friend in them.
© Payal Tyagi